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20K of original story.

Does everyone who knows one of the false etymologies of where the term "mollify" comes from have difficulty using it without imagining characters dressing each other up in drag to calm down, or is it just me?

Date: 2008-12-30 07:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] derryderrydown.livejournal.com
Until now, it was just you.

In the future, it's not just you.

Date: 2008-12-30 10:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petronelle.livejournal.com
I love sharing!

Date: 2008-12-30 08:11 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] giglet.livejournal.com
2)It's just you. Or was.

1)Um. Wasn't that 10k a couple days ago?! Write! Write like the Wind!

Date: 2008-12-30 10:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petronelle.livejournal.com
I read some darn thing about gay history that said the verb mollify had to do with mollies. So.

And, um, yes. But that was two very productive days ago.

(Don't ask about the state of the house.)

Date: 2008-12-30 08:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] executrix.livejournal.com
Actually, I associate it more with oeufs mollets, and I definitely don't want to think about characters soft-boiling each other.

Date: 2008-12-30 10:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petronelle.livejournal.com
Eep.

I got the etymology -- false or otherwise -- from a book of gay history that said the root is molly. It stuck.

Date: 2008-12-31 02:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sterling-sara.livejournal.com
This seems like the comment to respond to in correction.

No, mollify doesn't come from molly, though they share the root- the root is molle, Latin, meaning "soft". Mollify=to soften, molly=soft man. Molle was used for a brand of sodomite in some medieval or early Renaissance text that I can't remember right now, and from there on, though the references are thin until the 18th century.

The More You Know! Hope I'm not too presumptuous. :D

Date: 2008-12-31 02:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petronelle.livejournal.com
Aw, that's sad. I liked the crazy etymology.

I appreciate knowing it's wrong, though. Thank you.

Date: 2008-12-31 02:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sterling-sara.livejournal.com
If I may ask, what book did you get that from?

Date: 2008-12-31 02:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petronelle.livejournal.com
I can't remember, sorry. It was years ago.

Date: 2008-12-31 02:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belmanoir.livejournal.com
ooh, so THAT'S where "molly" came from! awesome!

Date: 2008-12-31 02:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petronelle.livejournal.com
And so we *all* learn something.

Date: 2008-12-31 02:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belmanoir.livejournal.com
is that actually where the term comes from? according to the online etymology dictionary which is usually pretty reliable:

c.1386 (implied in mollification), "to soften (a substance)," from O.Fr. mollifier, from L. mollificare "make soft, mollify" from mollificus "softening," from L. mollis "soft" + root of facere "to make" (see factitious). Transf. sense of "soften in temper, appease, pacify" is recorded from c.1412.

whereas "molly" wasn't a popular term until MUCH later and my impression was that it derived from the girl's name (and of course "moll," the slang term for sex worker), although i have no footnote for that.

however that is a GREAT image, so i may just pretend!

Date: 2008-12-31 02:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petronelle.livejournal.com
No, unfortunately. But it's still funny to me.

Date: 2008-12-31 02:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belmanoir.livejournal.com
"mollycoddle" on the other hand? DOES come from "molly." and the online ety dictionary entry is funny in its own right:

1833, originally a noun, "one who coddles himself," from Molly (pet name formation from Mary), used contemptuously from 1754 for "a milksop, an effeminate man" + coddle (q.v.). The verb is 1870, from the noun.

"milksop"? really?

Date: 2008-12-31 02:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petronelle.livejournal.com
Is milquetoast more or less to your liking?

I like that mollycoddle = wank. I did not know that.

Date: 2008-12-31 02:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belmanoir.livejournal.com
"milquetoast" is like one of my favorite words ever actually. there's something inherently hilarious about it.

Date: 2008-12-31 06:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] askmehow.livejournal.com
It was just you. *glares*

@0,000 words?!? That's fantastic! Well done you!

Date: 2008-12-31 01:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petronelle.livejournal.com
*smiles*

I've been having good writing days. Thank you.

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